2 and done?

Two kids now...
Two little boys...
Two delightful, mischievous, wonderful sons...
Two commonly asked questions: Are we done with kids?  Do we want to try to have a daughter?

Brian's thoughts on this are that we are done.  Jude was definitely a bit more of a handful than Tam was as a baby and having two young ones is certainly more difficult than just having one.

My thoughts are that we are done... for now.  I don't think I am quite ready to admit there isn't a chance for a third child in the next few years.  We will see...I am thinking at least waiting until Jude is around 4 and Tam is in school or maybe once both boys are in school.  We will see.  I'm not too old yet :-)


Tam's thoughts on this...
He he he he...
We were at the store and I was purchasing, um, anti-baby rubber things.  Curious Tam asks, "Momma, what are those?"  I answer, "they are these awesome things that momma and daddy use so that you don't get another baby brother."  Tam replies with, "okay.  I got baby brother Jude."  (I think Tam is ok with just one little sibling for now.)

Oh, and don't get me started on a rant against the price of birth control, especially when your employer doesn't cover it on you medical insurance.

To this end, and a burning need to clear clutter and make some cash, I have decided to sell baby clothes at the next local Mom sale.  I was a little hesitant to sell clothes, just in case I get pregnant again...but my smart husband pointed out that what I really enjoy is the bargain shopping.  He reminded me that if I pregnant again, I'll have a great time hunting for new clothes for the wee one.  We have two Mom sales in the area that are coming up on the September 15th weekend. Currently, I am opting to sell at the consignment sale, rather than the booth sale. This means I price the clothes, tag them with a barcode, and drop them off.  They will sell the clothes for me so I don't have to sit there in a booth, though this costs me 35% of my profits. To this end, I've been madly tagging clothes and trying to scrounge up hangers for all the wee little outfits.  I will be keeping my fingers crossed that I sell a goodly amount so that I can claim some of my storage bins back (and make some cash).  Hopefully, my sis will make it out for the weekend too :-)

Boys and guns

Tam is currently into flying planes that shoot, which he accomplishes with his own creative noises.

Where did this need to shoot things come from?  Is it a gene that is inherited on the Y chromosome? 

I suspected that it would happen, but had hoped for a little longer before this began.  We certainly do NOT watch violent shooting movies in the house...both Brian and I would rather watch a comedy than a war movie.

But...other little boys watch different things...and Tam loves to play with friends.  I think he picked up this shooting play from recent playground excursions, a birthday party, and the Cars 2 movie. 

Sigh.  He has no concept what shooting means or what is the consequence of being shot.  He just likes to make the sounds at things.

Our combat to this?
No shooting in the house.  No shooting family members. No exceptions.

Is it a solution?  Should we care at all about this typical behavior?  I don't know, but both Brian and I are at least attempting to keep it on a low simmer for now.

Gilmore Car Museum

 Both Brian and I had a day off of work earlier this week, so we decided to do something as a family.  We let Tam decide...did he want to see cars (Gilmore Car Museum) or did he want to see planes (Air Zoo)?  After some debate, Tam picked the car museum, which was about an hour drive south of our home.

Apparently, this is one of the best car museums in the country with models ranging from the first cars up to 2006 race cars.  I don't know how many cars they had in total, but it seemed like a couple hundred and all are housed in 8 or 9 big barn / buildings.  (We didn't see them all because it got close to nap time).

Tam insisted on bringing his large plastic McQueen race car, just in case he saw McQueen at the museum.  

Once at the museum, we were all impressed.  I liked that it was huge and had lots of open space around the cars for maneuvering the stroller and checking things out.  Tam had fun running around and zooming McQueen around the cars.  He did a great job at not touching any of them and only looking with his eyes.  Jude was just happy to be out with all of us and to practice walking.

Jude rode in the stroller for part of the time...
pushed the stroller for some of the time...
crawled a small bit...
was carried on shoulders for moments...
and tottled around holding a hand for some of the time.

 Wow....dashboards of cars have changed pretty drastically in the past century!
Tam noted that there were no seat belts in the cars.
All the cars had placards beside them that were really informative and well written.  Both Brian and I appreciated learning knew information about the different models.  I noticed that the top of the line cars from the turn of the century are still out of my price-range today! ($6,000!) 

Here's Jude enjoying a breeze blowing into one of the barns...
 just like if he was riding in one of these open carriage cars :-) 

 I think Tam's favorite car wasn't a car, but a double decker bus.  This one isn't restored yet, so we were allowed to clambour on board and up to the top.  Tam loved checking out the world from all of the different windows.

 

There were more modern cars too...a whole room devoted to the '50s, '60s, and '70s.   Loved looking at all the different grills and fins.

There were also a handful of really fast cars: race cars, rocket cars, and stock cars.  Jude liked this big open room to crawl around in.  Tam immediately found buttons to push...which changed the projection screen to show different pit crews.  One of the shorts was a bit from the Cars Movie...complete with ...yep, McQueen!  Other buttons he found showed off the different engine sounds. (noisy buttons he liked to push quite a bit.)

We saw maybe 2/3rds of the grounds, ate lunch at their diner, went up in the double decker bus again, and headed home.  I know that my knowledge of cars has gone up exponential since Tam's birth, and this museum helped further it even more.  Yep, a very successful excursion that we all enjoyed :-)

A mom's 6th sense

The past few nights I haven't been able to sleep at night.  I would just toss and turn in bed until the wee hours of the morning.  I had even tried reading in the spare room until I nod off on my book.  This, of course, made me ornery.  The poor kids had to put up with me snapping at them for silly things.  I knew it was from lack of sleep, but I just couldn't seem to drift off at night.

Well, things changed last night.

After, I put Jude to bed, I set Tam up on the computer with a game while I went down to the basement to start a load of laundry.  On the way down the stairs, I smelt something odd, like burnt stuff.  WTF?  I put the clothes in the machine, started it up, and went on to investigate the smell.

My nose led me to the main basement light switch at the top of the stairs.   There was definitely a burning smell emanating.  Okay...this isn't good.

I touch the switch to turn off the light and and, wowie, was it HOT.  And the plate, and the wall around the switch was hot, too.  Okay...no this really isn't good.  I first think to pop off the switch plate and investigate.  My second thought was to grab the fire extinguisher because I had visions of the switch plate coming off and the wall igniting into flames. I did neither of these things.

I googled "Hot light switch plate."
Thank God for the Internet and Google. 
Within moments, I had a plan, was pretty sure the house wasn't going to burn down, and nearly positive it could be fixed by my handy husband.

What did I do?  Duh...I flipped the breaker for that switch (and the kitchen) to kill the electricity for the night and left it alone. When Brian got home from work, I informed him of the situation and he replaced the switch the next day.

Here's the troublesome switch.  You can see the burnt plastic area at the top of white flip part.

So how does this link to me not sleeping?  Well, when I did sleep the past few days, I dreamt several times of fires...both forest fires, fires next door so we had to evacuate the house, and fires in our own house.  It made me think of what I would grab if I only had minutes to get out of the house.  Now that the switch has been replaced, no burning dreams last night and I slept so well!  I like to think that I somehow smelt the smoldering earlier in the week when it was first starting and my subconscious was trying to inform me of the danger. 

Cool.
Go mom sense.

Tam and Mama post

Tam is helping with this post...the following are his thoughts on random letters and spelling his name...
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Maybe some numbers?

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And the shift key...
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Can you tell what is the favorite letter currently?
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first steps on his own

Jude just repeatedly took his first UNASSITED steps!

Yep, he toddle from me to Brian (about 3 steps) all on his own.  Man-oh-man the huge ear to ear grin on his face was awesome.  He went back and forth between us and to Tam about six times before giving up and crawling again.

What a huge step in our little man's life.
Perhaps we can catch it on video soon.