2014 New Year Resolutions

I recall that last year my resolution was to "move forward."  I kept it simple...but in actuality it was so difficult to do.  However, I feel I was successful in completing this self-imposed task.

How so?

I moved forward in my work...by changing employment direction completely.  I went from college professor to orchid grower.  I went from lecturing under-motivated students to caring for baby plants.  I went from bringing my work home and grading student exams for hours to leaving my work at work and using home time as family time.  I went from thinking of my work as "blah" to loving what I am doing.  I went from facing tenure that was based heavily on student evaluations and then years of little to no advancement to a growing work team with room for moving up as we expend. 

I moved forward in our dwelling place.  As a family, we moved from a large city to a small town.  We moved from traffic congestion and a sea of traffic light to a town with rush "minutes" instead of hours.  We moved from a neighborhood where we barely knew our neighbors to an area where the neighbors are uber friendly (we love them!)  We moved from a city where we felt that everyone was out for themselves to a small town where everyone looks you in the eyes and smiles and wants to help.  We moved from 7+ hours from family to 2 hours from family.  We moved from the city that was 60 miles from Lake Michigan to a home that is 5 blocks from Lake Erie.  We went from a huge house with lots of storage space to a small cottage home.  We learned what we had accumulated but could do without. 

I moved forward in my health, sort of.  With my new employment I am constantly moving around, either walking, riding a bike, or shoving around tables of plants.  I lost weight...quite a bit of weight.  It feels great!  I am drinking more water, a ton more water during the day.  However, my blood pressure hasn't improved yet.  I am hoping it is just a bit of a lag and that it will drop soon too.

I moved forward in family togetherness.  I announced that I wanted to move, and Brian agreed.  I dove into the searching for employment field, floundered for awhile, cried in disappointment for awhile, but eventually was successful.  Brian held me steady through the highs and lows.  We brought the boys from their friends in the big city to a new town we knew little about.  We went through rough months of showing the house (unsuccessfully), madly cleaning, madly packing, many phone calls, many bills, moving, painting, painting, painting, cleaning, unpacking, storing stuff...and still finding time to be together as a family.  We spent so much of the summer in chaos, but also in quiet moments playing at the beach.  Exploring our new habitat as a family was wonderful...and we continue to do so every week.

I feel a bit more at peace now in my soul...and once the house sells, I will be even more at peace :-)


Now what about a new resolution?
1. Get back into music.  I miss handbells and want to get back into it or into drums or something.  There seem to be a couple of opportunities locally that Brian and I have to explore to find a fitting out for our musical talents.

2. Help my kiddos grow. I want to get them more involved in groups, perhaps into a sport or something.  I want them to interact in a group setting that will help them build their skills. 

3.  Keep growing as an orchid grower.  I feel more invested in this employment than I have in a long time.  I want to do well.  I want the plants to grow well.  I want our orchid team to be successful.

4. But not lose my outdoor plant knowledge.  I want to keep this aspect of my knowledge alive...perhaps looking to participating or hosting walks/ talks in the local nature centers. 

Wow...from 1 resolution to 4...I must have high hopes of being successful this year.  Let's keep our fingers crossed.

Hotwheel Track by Daddy

 Tamlin asked to set up the hotwheel tracks one night.  Of course, the nugget-head asks for this right before bedtime.  I had to disappoint him by saying no tracks that night, but that we could play with them tomorrow.  Well, the next day we went to the library after school and work instead of playing tracks.  Tamlin was very sad and so was his brother...you should have seen the sad faces!  I did the best that I could by saying I would ask Brian to set the track up the next day for us.  This stemmed from the few times I remember my parents setting up the blocks or building a castle from legos for us while we were sleeping.  (I thought that was so cool).
 Luckily, I did remember to ask Brian to do this...
and awesome dad that he is, he set up an equally awesome track for the boys to play with when they got home after school. 
Daddy's track started at the top of the stairs...
Through a tunnel...
Down the stairs...
and into the car bucket!
There was also a side track with loops and curves.

Oh my.
The little ones had such a blast sending ALL of their cars down the track and seeing which ones survived to the end or fell off in route.

My wonderful car-nut boys :-)

Shelly and Ciearra visit

Shelly and Ciearra came out to visit for Saturday night / Sunday.  The kids had a blast playing in the house on Saturday.  Mostly we over heard games of house and superheroes...depending on who was being bossier at the time.  I also let them play a few games on the Wii.  This was a hoot to watch since Tamlin has grown up playing with this game system but Ciearra has not.  (So poor Ciearra took a while to grasp the concept of moving the controller to move the avatar on the screen.  Shelly kept laughing because it brought back memories of the ol' original Nintendo system.  She would "jump" with the controller in order to help her game character jump too (never worked!).
After playing, I made a big bowl of stove-top popcorn for us all and we settled in to watch a movie before bed.  Now even though we put the kids down at a decent hour, the hoodlums stayed up talking to each other for awhile later...including Jude waking up at 12:30 am to cry about not having his dump truck and little cars in bed with him.

On Sunday, we went to church together, with our tired little ones.  We returned to the First Church of Oberlin, which we think will be our spiritual home (another post, I promise). 

And after church and lunch, we went Roller Skating! 
Yes it is becoming a bit of a fun habit for us.  Ciearra was excited since she had only roller skated before on carpet inside.  Tamlin was excited to show Cierra his moves on the floor.  Jude was excited to skate with Momma.  Shelly was excited to see if she remembered how to skate.  Brian was just happy to be with all of us as a family and I was happy for this (and to feel the wind in my newly shorten hair while I speed skated).

There are several perks to the Sunday family skate.  One, we save some money as the little ones get in free with an adult admission.  Two, there are lots of families here so there are other kids for my boys to interact with.  Three, not everyone are professional skaters...there were some spectacular falls made by adults this week.  Luckily everyone got back up quickly and most were back on their wheels skating again within moments.

Ciearra gets up...

 And Tamlin gets up...

Ready to roll!

 Jude was able to get a pair of toddler skates again which make him much more confident in getting around.  Though, we tried to each hold one of his hands and this led to him throwing himself on the floor for us to "swing him".  Ah-no...we weren't playing that game while on wheels.

Tamlin and Ciearra were getting better and better...though much of the time they skated around the rink clinging to the wall.  I would lead Ciearra off onto the floor and I swear I felt like I was in a cartoon.  I held her arm steady and her little legs / feet were going a mile a minute...yet we weren't moving forward!  Jude liked skating with me...but only if we were both going forward.  I tried to hold his hands and lead him forward while I skated backward.  Jude, being the conservative that he is, did NOT like this different arrangement at all and insisted we stop that at once.

I liked the speed skate songs...which let the little ones and the those who are still learning wait outside while we got to speed around the rink.  I'm not too graceful yet, but my confidence and skills are coming back to me.  I'm still working on crossing over for corners, but not quite there yet.  And man-oh-man did my thigh muscles burn a bit afterwards.

We had dinner afterwards and then said our goodbyes.
I don't know about Ciearra, but our boys were out like light-bulbs early that night!

Good times.  Next weekend we may try another rink...just to change things up.

Favorite songs

Favorite songs sung in our house lately...

Tamlin:
Crazy Train by Ozzy Osbourne: "Going off the rails on a crazy train"
YMCA by the Village People: "It's fun to go to the Y M C A,  Y M C A"
Rock you by Queen: "We will, we will, Rock you.
Jingle Bells: "Jingle bells,  one horse open sleigh, jingle all the way, HEY!"


Jude:
Jingle Bells:  "Jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way, HEY!"