I recall that last year my resolution was to "move forward." I kept it simple...but in actuality it was so difficult to do. However, I feel I was successful in completing this self-imposed task.
How so?
I moved forward in my work...by changing employment direction completely. I went from college professor to orchid grower. I went from lecturing under-motivated students to caring for baby plants. I went from bringing my work home and grading student exams for hours to leaving my work at work and using home time as family time. I went from thinking of my work as "blah" to loving what I am doing. I went from facing tenure that was based heavily on student evaluations and then years of little to no advancement to a growing work team with room for moving up as we expend.
I moved forward in our dwelling place. As a family, we moved from a large city to a small town. We moved from traffic congestion and a sea of traffic light to a town with rush "minutes" instead of hours. We moved from a neighborhood where we barely knew our neighbors to an area where the neighbors are uber friendly (we love them!) We moved from a city where we felt that everyone was out for themselves to a small town where everyone looks you in the eyes and smiles and wants to help. We moved from 7+ hours from family to 2 hours from family. We moved from the city that was 60 miles from Lake Michigan to a home that is 5 blocks from Lake Erie. We went from a huge house with lots of storage space to a small cottage home. We learned what we had accumulated but could do without.
I moved forward in my health, sort of. With my new employment I am constantly moving around, either walking, riding a bike, or shoving around tables of plants. I lost weight...quite a bit of weight. It feels great! I am drinking more water, a ton more water during the day. However, my blood pressure hasn't improved yet. I am hoping it is just a bit of a lag and that it will drop soon too.
I moved forward in family togetherness. I announced that I wanted to move, and Brian agreed. I dove into the searching for employment field, floundered for awhile, cried in disappointment for awhile, but eventually was successful. Brian held me steady through the highs and lows. We brought the boys from their friends in the big city to a new town we knew little about. We went through rough months of showing the house (unsuccessfully), madly cleaning, madly packing, many phone calls, many bills, moving, painting, painting, painting, cleaning, unpacking, storing stuff...and still finding time to be together as a family. We spent so much of the summer in chaos, but also in quiet moments playing at the beach. Exploring our new habitat as a family was wonderful...and we continue to do so every week.
I feel a bit more at peace now in my soul...and once the house sells, I will be even more at peace :-)
Now what about a new resolution?
1. Get back into music. I miss handbells and want to get back into it or into drums or something. There seem to be a couple of opportunities locally that Brian and I have to explore to find a fitting out for our musical talents.
2. Help my kiddos grow. I want to get them more involved in groups, perhaps into a sport or something. I want them to interact in a group setting that will help them build their skills.
3. Keep growing as an orchid grower. I feel more invested in this employment than I have in a long time. I want to do well. I want the plants to grow well. I want our orchid team to be successful.
4. But not lose my outdoor plant knowledge. I want to keep this aspect of my knowledge alive...perhaps looking to participating or hosting walks/ talks in the local nature centers.
Wow...from 1 resolution to 4...I must have high hopes of being successful this year. Let's keep our fingers crossed.